I suspect this is not going to end well, but I thought I would seek input. Have a 2004 Dodge Stratus 6cyl auto daily driver with 164k miles. It gets the job done and has been remarkably trouble free. I'm not sure if the auto trans has ever had fluid changed, although I suspect not.
Starting a month or so ago, on cold start ups, usually when outside temp is in 30s or below, shift into reverse or drive with the brake on, and car still, there is a pretty raspy sound from what seems like the transmission. Think sand and pebbles in a blender. No significant vibration. Once I touch the gas and car starts moving, it goes away. Once the car is warmed up, the sound goes away. It shifts fine, as it always has. My first thought is change the trans fluid. I think I read somewhere that you should generally should not change the trans fluid in a high mileage auto trans that has not had fluid changed, with the idea being that the unit is so worn that it 'depends' on the grit in the fluid to work. If you swap out with new fluid the old worn trans looses that and can start slipping more. Is that true? Any personal experiences? I am not really looking for the "replace it with a new trans" answer, I am looking more for the GRM thoughts on the problem and the GRM budget fix. Thanks

