So for the past week my girlfriend's Jetta (1992 GL 1.8 8v Digifant) has been randomly stalling while driving, unable to start once it happens (with characteristic non-working tach while cranking, etc). Wiggling all the relays seemed to work for a while. I traced it back to the Digifant ECM relay (pos 3), a #32 relay. Tach still works when engine is cranking when I pull the fuel pump relay, so I'm 100% sure it's this one. Initially I thought it was just a bad connection, but I pulled the dash knee panel out and troubleshot it for a few hours. Seems like the relay randomly gives up, as I jiggled it and messed around for quite a while trying to get it to quit running, whereas when it finally did quit it was firmly seated and not being touched at all.
Now, I went to my local NAPA (local dealer is notoriously E36 M3ty) and had them order me an ECM relay. I got a #109, grey box, which SHOULD work according to my search here on the Vortex - but it does not. Pins are clearly different, but I tried it anyway, no dice, unsolvable by any amount of wiggling - popped the #32 back in and it started right up...until it randomly stalled again 5 mins later and would not start until after 45 mins of wiggling the damn thing.
I've been trying to get this licked for a while now. She has to go to a funeral 400 miles away this weekend, and I went through tires, brakes, cooling system, etc...to be defeated by a relay. I took the plastic cover off and let the whole thing soak in a coffee cup full of WD-40, who knows if that will help, but it's something.
So, where should I look next? Is there a proper newer relay to retrofit? Is there something ghetto I can do just to ensure that she gets there and back okay? Everything I read says the #32 has been superseded by the #109 anyways - should I try running a jumper wire to a different pin on the #109 and use that? I don't even know what to do! Just took it out for a long drive, the 2-hour WD-40 soak hasn't failed me yet, though I remain skeptical.



