Our junkyard transmission for our Lemons car scratches third gear. It isn't in the budget to replace, without cheating, and I want to face the judgement with a clean conscious.
So we filled it with new honda gear oil. Drove it three miles and drained it. It came out looking like a mixture of motor oil and JB weld. Put redline heavy shockproof in it and got it hot yesterday. A rev-match double clutched downshift to third is fine. A second to third upshift still grinds.
If I ease it from second to third I get a soft griiiiind, thunk. If I shift it with some authority by revving it out in second, shifting to neutral, clutch out, clutch in and pushing it hard to third, no grind...just the thunk.
Which upshift method for the longest service life?

