Spec Miata racers run the SM suspension because they have to, not necessarily because they want to. I'm not a Spec racer, but I believe the biggest complaints center around the damping quality. They also run a lot more front spring than is typical - I like to keep my front springs about 1.5x my rears at stiffest. For the Targa car, I had 375/300 and while I needed more spring overall for the race, the car had the perfect balance.
I'd probably stay away from the Konis with stiff spring rates myself, as I think they work at their best with stock rates. My personal "do everything" Miata is fitted with (no surprise) the FM suspension parts, including the Tokico Illuminas. I don't have Ground Controls on there as I don't feel the need to cornerweight that particular car, but that's a good combination that's made a lot of people happy.
My recipe for a great little HPDE Miata on a budget that you can drive to the track:
FM suspension kit (I have to say that, but since I helped develop it I'd be lying if I didn't think it worked well!), possibly with GCs
Roll bar - my favorites are the Hard Dog Sport or Hard Core, depending on local regulations and ratio of track/street use
Harnesses or a CG Lock
Decent 15" wheels (the upcoming TRMotorsport C1 looks good for $99) with 205/50-15 Toyo RA1s
Good brake pads
(sorry about the formatting of the list, I cannot make anything else work)
That'll give you a good little giant-killer that you can drive every day if you want. If you want to add more power later, you'll have the platform to handle it.