Texas in whole is a suckers bet. Don;t let any of their "We're still allowed to succed from the Union... we're the only state allowed to fly our flag as high as the US Flag..we used to be our own country..." crap sway you.
Nice conservatice peaple? GREAT BBQ and Mexican food? (and yes Texas folks, BBQ can be done with pork) Good job market? Affordable housing? Churches? My friend you need to look at the oasis of Oklahoma. OKC is actually a very cosmopoliatn city and we have a pro basketball team now (suck it Seattle!). Great SCCA club, small but loyal. A good road course at Hallet and a day from he SCCA nats in Nebraksa. Mild winters and summers.....well its the midwest, summers are just friggin hot. The twisters only scare you the first season, then you catch yourself in you car with a camera trying to get good footage of one.
Curvy roads....curvy roads....well I won't lie, for that you have to go to Arkansas, but its not that far.
Seriously, I am in Colorado but returning to OK in Sept. I really did enjoy my time there and its an affordable place to live with a lot of what you are looking for. If you must have a big city, Dallas is merely 2 hours away, so you can go for the weekend and still get back and enjoy the non-crowded OKC highways.4 major military installations, and while they have a conservative lean, they are also big on not getting getting in peaple's business.Smaller but plentiful lakes, prettier in the fall than you ever expect. Give it a look.

