I have an enclosed trailer and have had similar problems finding the right tire. You describe the forums accurately-- for every tire that someone sings the praises of there is someone else that thinks it is crap.
I just had one tire blow up and another separate on the trailer. These were the cheap Made in China tires that came on the trailer. They were called "Mission" although you'll get a lot of strange brand names on Chinese tires.
I have no idea about Kumhos, that's the first I've heard that they make trailer tires. The size you specify is smaller at 14" than mine, so maybe that is why.
The fact that you've found a D rated radial tire in your size means you are ahead, although you give no information on what load this is supposed to carry.
I had Goodyear Marathons on a heavier trailer and they did quite well. They moved manufacturing to China some time ago, but more recently moved it back to the USA due to quality control problems (huh). They are the only tire out there that I would buy that I would have some confidence with.
Bottom line, if it says "China" on it, don't use it. Get something Made in USA and get the highest load rating you can find in your size. Then inflate up to the max. Goodyear recommends that you should inflate 10% over the max if you are towing any faster than 65!