AngryCorvair wrote:
quote from paternal unit in said case:
"i don't know why i should have to hold my son down against his will and cut his hair."
because he's berkeleying FOUR YEARS OLD, YOU ASSHOLE! he doesn't have a will to be held against. you put him in a situation with rules, so man up and follow the rules. way to teach your kid that rules don't apply to him. maybe he can push a broom right next to you, you POS loser-berkeley. ejaculation is a weak prerequisite for fatherhood. then again, dad's got neck tats and face piercings.
(oh boy, i can't wait to hear from teh defenders of neck tats and face piercings)
I revert to one of my favorite Zig Ziglar quotes;
I will defend to my death your right to look that way. I won't, however, give you a job.
I did the long hair thing with 3 earings back when having both ears pierced was a big deal. It limited my career options. I knew this and accepted that reality. Now I keep swearing that when I retire I am never cutting it again, but the missus says I will. She is right, becuase I enjoy making the sex with her, but until I cave in (usually after about 10 minutes of her standing her ground), I am gonna keep talking tough.
However, these are decisions I have arrived at as a grown man. Immature? Certianly, but grown. I paid my own bills since I was 17. Plenty of mature peaple, including several of my good friends have chosen this route for thier appearence and good for them. But they also have recoginized the reality of their look and there corresponding careers. Some have done quite well with it. But the piont is they decided this as adults.
The damm kid is 4. Cut his hair, let him cry and when he enters his teens, allow him to back these kinds of decisions and as well as the chance weigh and well as live with the consequnces.