I think the key here is that these figures are for run-off-road crashes. If the car has run off the road, the driver has usually lost control of a lot more than just the braking, and is about to hit something very hard very quickly. Ideally ABS helps them keep from running off the road in the first place, but isn't going to help a whole lot once they have lost it (and often given up, as mentioned above).
Only one of my vehicles has ABS (the others are too old) - my DD Jeep Liberty (I live 7 miles off the paved road in snow country),and the ABS (and through the ABS, the stability control) really works well on this truck. In fact, I can't play around much with power oversteer in the snow because the stability control corrects nicely before I do - nice for the real world when you encounter the unexpected. Now when I turn off the stability control - wheee!
Not to say that all ABS systems work as well. My previous DD (a '99 Isuzu Amigo V6 - great truck!) was so ABS hypersensitive that it kicked in with extremely light pedal pressure and actually drastically increased stopping distances on dirt. Pretty much everyone on the net who had an Amigo or Rodeo of this vintage pulled the fuse until the factory came up with a recall reprogamming, which worked very nicely.
On my Mk. 1 MR2, which is really prone to locking up a front wheel when autocrossing or tracking (not much trail braking opportunity here), I would dearly love to have ABS. It would significantly improve my lap times.
Randy Pobst recently wrote an article for Sportscar that advised not turning off the ABS/stability program until it realy interferes with your driving - and that most of the time, drivers can go faster with it on (of course he was dealing with Porsche systems).