Lesley wrote:Well... if you can't make a relationship with yourself work, there's no sense even trying it with someone else.
Ain't THAT the truth. If you don't like yourself, how could you ever expect someone else to?
Looking back since this thread was fiirst started: my 'the one' turned out to be anything but. 
At the time I wrote my earlier response, I was hoping for the best but I knew deep inside it was over; I was merely kidding myself.
So now I am divorced and a single father with no time (or inclination, honestly) to go huntin'. I'm at the point where I am just going to roll with the punches. If it happens it happens. If it doesn't, well, sometimes life is like that.
My dad told me not long before he died he was most afraid of dying alone. I guess we all are. But if not dying alone meant staying with my ex, uh no thank you. Life is just too short. Put me in solitary.
