I did not get the engine back in. The transmission really happily slid in with about a 1/4" gap and would not wiggle forward. In my experience, transmissions usually do nothing until the magic angle is acquired then they go *thunk* and seat all the way. This one refused. I threaded the bolts in and very gently tightened them and the transmission snugged up happily. Hopefully I didn't break anything.
So, here's some fun BMW nonsense. I couldn't figure out why there were 3 ground wires coming from the harness, each with a different sized ring terminal.

Once I'd reinstalled the starter, I remembered that these must be the starter wires. I'd replaced the starter before, but the absurdity of 3 black wires didn't really register when it was only the starter I was working on. You'd think that fancy German factory could afford some differently colored wire now and again.
I'm pleased to report that while the Stupidest Starter Bolt isn't easy to install with the engine out of the car, it's a lot easier. I do have to wonder what anyone was thinking with that design.
I replaced some destroyed bushings:


I could not muster the effort to clean the transmission case. Which is fine, because I spent all remaining effort for the day on the front subframe. First I needed to get the car off the trailer and into the garage since it spent the winter outside. That took awhile, and the very slight incline leading up to my garage was a bit of pain, but I'm going to pretend I'm confident that the car will leave the garage under its own power.
No pictures left from the rest of my day...
First, I removed the control arms. Everything went fine until the driver's side ball joint simply refused to come out, even after a few minutes of pounding on it with my rivet gun. Fortunately, I remembered that I did acquire a ball joint separator tool kit. I managed to get one of them in a reasonable orientation and somewhere around a few million feet-ton of torque, the ball joint popped with quite an explosion. Completely destroyed the threads on the ball joint, which was a bit sad since I was planning to keep those as spares. No big loss once I realized RockAuto has replacements for $12/each. I guess BMW people really do change these things with every oil change. I noticed because while I acquired replacement control arms, I didn't acquire control arm bushings, and my old ones are in rough shape and good and well fused to the control arms.
The subframe itself was pretty simply to remove. I'd purchased a fancy reinforced replacement which appeared to be in great shape, unfortunately I think my car is somewhat bent. It's clear from the skid plate and subframe reinforcement that the bottom of the subframe has taken at least one huge whack in the last 20 years of being of a rally car, which I think (a) flattened the subframe a big, (b) spread the frame a bit, (c) destroyed the flanges the motor mount bolts to (which is why I'm replacing the subframe). This meant the new subframe really didn't want to go on. I finally managed to get it by loosely attaching one side, then getting threads on the side started with some serious prying effort. The bolts threaded in, I hope not cross-threaded, and appeared to actually bolt things in place correctly. The bolts torqued up correctly, so I'm hoping I didn't cross-thread them or otherwise destroy things. I'm not removing it to find out.
I wonder how many more orders of magnitude of time I've spent wrenching on this thing compared to the ~40 minutes I've spent driving it on stage...