We've had a few days to make calls, send e-mails and so forth. What a unique problem Mercedes has created with the labeling of "Theft Relevant!!" At a strategic level, this reeks of Anti-Trust/Anti-Competitive behavior in their favor, forcing customers to use the dealership. That's a fight for later though.
I've spoken with TransGo, Sonnax, FCPEuro, a transmission specialist shop in New Zealand and countless on-line Mercedes Parts Vendors on-line. The problem is two fold - 1) theft relevant status means no dealer can sell directly to a customer, period. The Conductor Plate is NOT sold individually, rather with the Valve Body. 2) private businesses can't get the valve bodies unless they are already broken thus lack sufficient knowledge base and bench stock to supply reconditioned valve bodies upon customer requests. While Sonnax offers valve body parts, finding a source for those 722.9 AWD AMG parts has been unproductive.
THEN...even if your found a complete package....you'd still have to go to Mercedes for the re-coding of the Conductor Plate to the vehicle.
For those familiar with Alex's YouTube Channel, Legit Street Cars, he and I spoke at length looking for a solution. For reference he is/was an AMG Master Tech and an independent source of knowledge in this. He recommended Circuit Board Medics to repair only the Conductor Plate and suggested that the valve body is likely fine. The latter contingent upon routine transmission services; which this R63 has had done.
As a DIY'er, I'm confident with the routine services (oil changes, air filters, repairing/replacing window switches, etc). One area I tend to look at external knowledge and expertise is the transmission. Easy to mess up, and the R63 has very specific temperature windows to re-fill fluid at, etc.
So where does this leave us? As a whole, we are going to repair. The dealer and I will have a discussion on their parts/fluid pricing (27% markup this time!), and come to agreement on how to ship the conductor plate to Circuit Board Medics. I'm going to continue to check for Sonnax 722.9 valve body items; ideally a subject-matter-expert to assist.
The R63 is in excellent condition overall. The AMG Techs locally here have expressed their surprise at this issue and praised the condition and mechanical soundness of the R63 as a whole. I agree with mazdeuce in the hopes that this is the "hump" of issues.