So figured I'd update this thread, as the car is about 2 months and 2,000 miles from the end of its warranty and today I just had to replace the OEM battery finally (was dead when I came out of work). Incidentally, VW gave me a bunch of BS at the dealer about $350 for the battery and $250 to "recode the ECU to it." So I went down a block to Batteries Plus and got an exact replacement (AGM, same aH, CCA, etc.) for $275 installed. No coding, what a load of BS.
Other than that, over 70k miles and 6 years:
- only on my 2nd set of tires, as noted one of my last posts here.
- still on the original brake pads (though I have all new replacement pads and rotors in my garage to do eventually). This has the big brakes from the Golf R that also came on SE model GTIs, incidentally. They're still the best brakes I've ever owned on a car.
- the USB port in the center console is "loose" and loses connection a lot. This is a $30 piece to just buy and replace (probably warranty-covered but hardly worth leaving my car at the dealer to do.
- suspension feels fine, engine, drivetrain, all fine. Done nothing but oil changes and air filter. Will probably do trans fluid soon.
- my aftermarket tint started bubbling on 2 windows after 6 years so I ripped it off and will have to re-do, but that's not a VW issue.
- aforementioned battery. That's fine, 6 years is a good life for a battery. However, the car gave ZERO warning when it was dying. No lights, no nothing. I only suspected it this morning when the car cranked slow, and then it was dead when I came out of work. Having a voltmeter in the electronic display wouldn't be that though, wtf.
- no leaks, no rattles, no interior buttons or knobs have broken or anything. No paint issues or rust issues
So all in all, everything has been extremely reliable/good so far. Figured I'd post this now before the warranty is TOTALLY up in case I jinxed myself. The car is still "very good" to drive and straight up averages 31-32mpg for its entire life in mixed driving so that's fine as well. It's still not all that exciting to drive.....when I replace it someday I won't be all sad about it, it's just a really, really good appliance. But that may be a while as long as it keeps behaving nicely. Plus I still love the excellent 6-speed on this car and it's getting tough to find a new manual car these days.