Ive NEVER broken a manual or even worn one out. My dd has 337k on the original box/synchros.
I have a feeling i will break one with power (not powershifting) sometime in the future, though.
Time wise it takes about the same time to R&R a manual transmission as an automatic (maybe slightly less time for an automatic since the gear shift lever isn't involved in an automatic)
That was not my experience while actually doing it for a living for 2 years. You HAVE to drain an auto to drop it unless you want a huge mess, and most of them dont have drain plugs which means dropping the pan. Then you've got cooler lines, some of which take several minutes by themselves because of access problems. Youve got several electrical connectors which can have tricky access. Heck on a lot of GMs you have to have a heat gun handy to unplug the NSS. Then you've got torque converter bolts which, depending on the trans, are a huge PITA, like an old cummins or the GMs that came with allen-head bolts that always strip and sometimes need to be air-chiseled out.
SOME 2wd auto trannies are cake. The fastest i dropped a 2wd trans on a lift was 17 minutes and i doubt thats any kind of record. But that is NOT true across the board.
Some manuals are hard too but they are generally easier and faster to get out than automatics.
Considering how durable most automatics are now days if an automatic does fail it makes sense to replace the whole thing..
On NEW used cars, thats reasonably accurate. On old used cars, thats way too broad a statement. For example, i would never rebuild an AW4 in a cherokee. I would ALWAYS just buy a used one. But i would almost ALWAYS rebuild the trans in a caravan and NEVER buy a used one. All trannies are not created equal and unless you worked around them day in day out or knew someone who did, you'd be taking a real shot in the dark buying a used transmission trying to save $1000, especially if you pay someone else for install or it takes your slow ass all day to put one in.
Parts wise a used automatic with a warranty is about the same price as a clutch, pressure plate, throw out bearing, and resurfacing the flywheel.
Obviously clutch prices vary wildly but a LOT of clutches are under $150 and resurfacing a flywheel is 20-25 where im at. On the other hand, the cheapest i ever heard of a used trans with a labor warranty was 400, and usually it was more like 700, although some were higher. Now if you're talking exchange warranty you can get one from a upullit on half price day for like $92 dollars (not counting what your time is worth to drag all your tools out there and pull it in a field). But as i said, if you do it yourself and the transmission doesnt work, you will probably be in it for $1000+ of time and aggravation when you finish taking it back to the yard and pulling the 2nd one yourself and putting it in yourself. And when it breaks in 6 months? If you pay someone else to r&r you'll be in it for $1000 just in labor by the time they put the 2nd one in. Or you skip the middleman and buy a $700 dollar one with a labor warranty, have a shop do it to GET the labor warranty, they mark up the used trans, and you're in it for $1200 but you're actually MOSTLY covered, for a while.
The only way DIY auto tranny replacement with cheapy jyard units works out is for proficient DIY'ers who get lucky on getting a good unit, and who dont consider their time to be worth ALL that much.
When it comes down to it, a lot of people dont fit that criteria and a lot of people just arent willing to take the chance of the whole operation blowing up in their face vs just paying the $1200-up for a used install with labor warranty, or $2k for the full meal deal rebuild+warranty.
But lots of people do their own clutches. It has relatively low 'blow up in your face and cost you a bunch of time and money' potential.