carbon wrote: "Yep. Also, hanging out with unsavoury types is hanging out with unsavoury types. I find it humorous when people describe these people as "good people". They aren't, they're low-lifes. Always will be. Winners, hang with winners. Period.
^He's right.
Everything took a major turn for the better when I divorced a whole bunch of my friends about 15 years ago.
I visited one of them this summer and it turns out, he's still the same guy with the same problems as when I left. He still hangs out with the same folks.
Shawn