In reply to bgkast:
I'm going to preemptively admit to resurrecting this thread (had a comment but thought better of it; it had nothing to do with the paddling).
Got sent here from this thread.
It's kind of a funny thing, as beds are so subjective. And I have this one positive experience, so I'm really inclined to try to duplicate that. OTOH, I don't have enough info to just go out and buy exactly those bits (don't know the exact mattress or topper which were used).
I really am tempted to file the cost of going to Ashland for a weekend under the heading of buying a new mattress. Given the relative cost of the cheaper stuff which I apparently liked so well, we could probably fly down, stay in the same B&B two nights, catch at least one play, eat out, and still come out no worse than even with buying another upper-mid-level mattress...
And although it's a tangent, it kills me that the one piece of really nice furniture we've gotten is the bed. It's gorgeous, but it sucks to actually sleep in...