In reply to SVreX:
You are absolutely right that employees are not playing the game anymore, as it were. There is such a subpar work ethic out there in the main populous, it's insane. I actually refused to go to the office anymore if I could possibly help it (I was able to work from home, and did, 100% of the time) simply because what I couldn't see didn't anger me as much.. IE I didn't SEE my coworkers sucking at life. HOWEVER-
I firmly believe it's part of a larger problem. Somewhere along the way, customers learned to go from the "customer is always right" as you put it- to "the customer is going to demand what they want, regardless of feasibility or who else it hurts in the process". IE- demanding free stuff, or one instance in particular where I got put on a million-dollar project to fix a hospitals mistakes because they couldn't be bothered to hire appropriate staff. My answer woulda been "You guys screwed it up, it's gonna cost you extra to fix it, or you can eat a million dollars" but we goodwilled it, and I had that thing knocked out in a third of the time I should have, because I hated looking at it. But back to my point- this has caused a backlash in employment as well. You've got a whole customer base, retail and otherwise- that isn't very nice, and overly entitled. They continually beat the employees up in whatever industry they happen to be beating on, until they get their way. Or they piss and moan at the employees expense, and the employee has to eat a big ol slice of E36 M3 pie. So either the employee capitulates, and you end up with someone so demoralized, they just don't care (who I was, to a degree). OR- you get who I became, the guy that says "If you won't protect me, and I cannot protect myself, this is not the employment for me, any more." This THEN causes a situation where eventually, you've pissed off all the GOOD people enough, they won't do the job anymore. Then you're left with the entitled dregs that WERE just your customers, because that's all you can get, and that's all they can get. Suddenly you have terrible customers becoming terrible employees, and the cycle perpetuates.
I have no problem with "the customer is always right" in the sense that let's say, the customer wants Jameson and all I have is Bushmills. I'm not likely to change the customers mind, but I can try and work with it. What I have a problem with, and what I am NOT very good with putting up with is the "huffy toss" scenario, where the customer is always right- IE customer wants Jameson, I don't have any, so the customer demands (and gets) 3 free bottles of Jack. THAT demand would have a customer out on his ass, where as customer A would be a "lemme cut you a deal on this Bushmills, maybe you like it" or a "I'll get more Jameson ASAP and call you" because you're a terrible liquor store if you don't have Jameson.