Money? A means to an end. And what end? I'm with ddavid on this one. A nice TV? Bah. Why watch the world go by when I can participate in it? A good suit? There's a nice one at the Thrift Store selling for pennies on the dollar of its original price, simply because it's last year's style. Hell, I'd be the best dressed guy at 90% of the marriages, funerals and job interviews I attend if I bought the thing. Yeah, even though I've switched to autocross from road racing, I've still pumped almost enough money into my heaps over the last five years to buy a Rolex..but doesn't a Timex tell time as well (I usually just look at the time display on my cellphone, anyway)?
WIthout motorsports, most of the best memories of my life would be missing. No telling the legend of Brian Redman to a new corner worker at the Mitty-without realizing the man himself was standing behind me, leaning on a pine tree and grinning like the Cheshire Cat (and spared me from embarassment by telling the new guy-a Porsche 944 owner-what it was really like to drive the 917). No laughing with Jim Fitzgerald about converting a Road Atlanta school car into a Firehawk Challenge racer overnight, so that the track publicists could brag about "Tom Cruise's Professional Racing Debut!!" No watching Sir Stirling Moss asking, "..may I please try that?" to a guy with an R/C off-road buggy. No "thank you" wave from Geoff Brabham and Price Cobb after I'd shown the blue flag to a Camel Lights car in front of them during qualifying. No fireworks wars in the infield, no stealing the leftover catering from the Mazda Motorsports tent in the middle of the night, no amorous action with some amazing women who actually cared about our sport, and a thousand other things.
The best of my corner worker memories are actually just me and the folks standing in the sun cracking jokes and quoting bad dialogue from "Grand Prix" as race cars do what they do.
And after I started actually driving? No first time through Drivers' School, realizing that I won't set the world on fire, but at least I can actually do this without going into a panic or hurting someone. No looking at the results and seeing that even though I only finished 9th, I spent less money than that guy, and that guy, and on down the standings. No "road trip" stories to tell about my and my crew (in the real sense, not the Hip-Hop one.. ) towing to Charlotte, to Roebling, etc., etc.
And not just the memories. "Normal" people treat me differently after they discover I'm a racer. There's an almost automatic level of respect (and even awe, from the ignorant fools that still buy into that "DEATH WISH" BMW E36) when I walk in the room. Even now that I autocross, people see the videos, watch the cars slide around, and wonder out loud, "..how do you do that?!?"
Sorry about the length of the post, and the "old guy" storytelling! To make a long story short..yes, it's expensive. But it has made me a much better person than I would have been otherwise. Better furniture/clothing/AV equipment/whatever wouldn't have.
And everything I've said pales in comparison to 4cylinderfury's comment..I never even mentioned how good it feels just to just take one of these machines in your hands, go out by yourself, and just do it.
Besides...motorsport is an equal opportunity obsession. Some of my racing buddies are rich guys, and have no problem letting me come over and watch Blu-ray movies on their HD TV...or take their expensive cars out. One of the women I slept with let me drive her Ferrari 308 once..