In reply to vwcorvette (Forum Supporter) :
If you like the current ride ( I think I remember you doing spring work to get there?) And your other "normal" loads are satisfactory, I think the hitch, even set up mediocre, will do all you need, with the car and single axle trailer
will need to know:
front axle empty
Rear axle empty
tongue weight with car one trailer, not hooked to van
and trailer axle weight with car (can be hooked, no equalizer)
a few different ways to get all this. Don't need the side to side like racing!
then F, R, and Tr axles loaded.
then F, R and Tr with WD hitch hooked up. Whew!
adjust for more or less on front axle (all three each change) by how tight the spring bars are.
THEN, some advice to ensure WD hitch is fine tuned (and I think you'll have it by then)
IF it still bottoms, we'll have to discuss air bags, air shocks, heavier springs or all the myriad of options
Or, if it bottoms on other "normal" loads!
And sway control (I don't foresee you needing any, unless you go to a big enclosed trailer) is a whole 'Nother subject!
TLDR: slap the WD hitch on, close enough, see if it bottoms out... go from there if it needs anything else