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z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
3/21/22 5:08 p.m.
RevRico said:

In reply to Stampie :

When I saw who started this thread, I didn't think I'd even get a chance to post my experience on page one by the time I finished typing it. I'm very glad to see how this thread has come along.

It's actually something I've wanted to do, I was just always afraid it would end badly. I'm a little surprised at some people who have NOT posted here, because I'd really appreciate their input knowing bits about their faith, but having TheRev pop in has been very enlightening. 

 

Just to throw people that may not know for a loop, the Rev in my username is because I'm am ordained minister. Universal ministries, internet "preacher", but I have been since I turned 18 years old. It started out as a very mean spirited joke, but just evolved into a nickname. I did perform my first wedding a couple years back, for non practicing friends of very strict Catholic upbringing, and their parents were pleasantly surprised at the results. 

I'm an ordained Dudeist Priest. devil

I haven't registered with the state of Oklahoma yet though. 

I'm actually surprised, given this state's history, that would be something I could actually do. 

Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter)
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) SuperDork
3/21/22 5:28 p.m.

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

Duke
Duke MegaDork
3/21/22 5:37 p.m.
DarkMonohue said:

To add to my last thought, I'd wager your paycheck or mine that the sense of irritation is a large factor in many people's avoidance of religion.

I will also double down on that by saying I bet 'latent guilt' is waaaayyy down in the list of reasons people react angrily.

 

z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
3/21/22 5:44 p.m.
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

I have not. If you have to pay, it's taking it's parody too seriously. 

You can become a Dudeist priest for free. smiley

z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
3/21/22 5:51 p.m.
1988RedT2 said:
Duke said:

In reply to 1988RedT2 :

As someone said above, proper evangelizing should be by silent example. 

I very much agree with your statement.  I would also add that I am annoyed as much as the next guy at the appearance of Jehova's Witnesses on my doorstep.  But I do not feel that a Christian should feel that he may never be the first to bring up the subject of his faith.  It really is all about presentation, and reading your audience.

It's weird you bring up JW in general, in the other thread I mentioned my annoyance was with a souther baptist group. 

The last time I had a JW come to the door was years ago in a different city. It was a long weekend for me based on our rotating schedules at State Farm. They came to the door about 10:30 am on a Saturday. I answered the door in my boxers with a beer in one hand and a joint in the other, "What would you guys like to talk to about?"

They handed me a pamphlet and got on their bicycles and left. It was quite amusing to my 25-year old self. 

Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter)
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3/21/22 5:56 p.m.
z31maniac said:
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

I have not. If you have to pay, it's taking it's parody too seriously. 

You can become a Dudeist priest for free. smiley

It was a parody from the early days of the Internet. The guy who ran it at the time very honestly said that he pocketed the money before he sent you the certificate.

Apexcarver
Apexcarver UltimaDork
3/21/22 5:58 p.m.

It had no real bearing on my nonparticipation in religion, but I had a stretch in college (lived alone in my mom's house while she was living with and taking care of her parents) where I was getting some kind of religious door knock 2-3x a week. I finally put a sign on the door saying something to the effect of eff off, I don't care about your religion, I don't care what you are selling unless it's girlscout cookies.

Steve_Jones
Steve_Jones Dork
3/21/22 5:58 p.m.
Stampie said:

I think this thread is proof of miracles. I mean who thought Steve_Jones could be active in a thread and not once come across as an shiny happy person?

Not only that, have someone else look worse!

wawazat
wawazat SuperDork
3/21/22 6:30 p.m.

^ Ha!

Paul_VR6 (Forum Supporter)
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3/21/22 6:51 p.m.
Duke said:
DarkMonohue said:

To add to my last thought, I'd wager your paycheck or mine that the sense of irritation is a large factor in many people's avoidance of religion.

I will also double down on that by saying I bet 'latent guilt' is waaaayyy down in the list of reasons people react angrily.

 

Way down or non existent. I think its a story people tell themselves to feel better. Don't tell me about jesus, just be like him. It will all sort out.  if i don't notice, its fine and on me. My own mother can't sway me, don't be hard on yourself. laugh

Pete. (l33t FS)
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3/21/22 7:21 p.m.
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

Always pay full price for SubGenius merchandise.

I had a Dobbshead on my Subaru back when.

Pete. (l33t FS)
Pete. (l33t FS) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
3/21/22 7:26 p.m.
z31maniac said:
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

I have not. If you have to pay, it's taking it's parody too seriously. 

You can become a Dudeist priest for free. smiley

That was part of the charm.   Basically listen to a lot of Devo and Negativland while watching corporatized religion (remember 80s television?) with a smattering of poking fun at Scientology and a whole lot of not taking any of it too seriously.

I was going to go to an X Day party but decided, meh. Bob would have been proud of the slack I had that day.

Curtis73 (Forum Supporter)
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3/21/22 10:39 p.m.
yupididit said:

In reply to 1988RedT2 :

So it's part of being a Christian to try to bring people to Christ? 

Why are some so aggressive about it and why do some seem not to care or try? 

Yes, Christianity is a missionary religion.  The gospel of Mark in chapter 10 speaks specifically of (paraphrasing) Man didn't come to be served, but so that he may serve and give his life for the benefit of (or 'to serve as ransom for) many"  Matthew ch28 says "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you."  The scriptures are pretty clear about making everyone believers.

Some are aggressive about it and some aren't in the same way that some salespeople give the hard pitch while others are like "here it is if you want it."  I think it's just a personality thing.  Back when I was a Christian, I just basically kept my ears open.  If someone asked me specifically about my faith I would talk it up, but I never engaged in "selling" anyone on the faith.

My only problem is that a certain percentage of believers in the U.S. (specifically of the Christian faith) interpret that "freedom of religion" means "freedom to impose religious laws that apply to everyone but based on the Christian faith."  I've never known a Jewish lawmaker try to ban pork for everyone, nor have I ever seen a Muslim legislator try to make every man grow a beard and cover their heads.  The first words of the first amendment to the constitution are Congress shall make no law with regard to an establishment of religion.  George Washington originally drafted his version which read "freedom from religious intolerance and compulsion."

The rest of this is long drivel from an essay I wrote many moons ago (10 years to be exact).  It highlights just how staunchly our founding fathers were not Christian and tried their hardest to NOT have it be anywhere in our government.  In fact, Christianity as we know it wasn't a popular religion in the United States until the mid 1800s.  In Colonial America, most of the churches were of a general God-preaching community, not specifically of any Christian denomination.  Catholic missions were cropping up on the Mission Trail in the south and southwest, but it wasn't until things like the Louisiana Purchase in 1803 and the Spanish American war in the late 1800s that those "converted" areas became part of what we now know as the United States.  During the Civil War, some of the Catholic, Anglican, and Episcopalian influences began trickling in as Pastors brought last rites to dying Civil War soldiers, but prior to that Christianity in the US was nebulous at best.

Read the following... or don't.  But it is heavily researched from biographies, first-hand accounts, written records, and historical documents.  It might give you some insight into how much the US is NOT a Christian nation.

1)  Thomas Payne (more accurately spelled Paine) was a pamphleteer (basically an early editorialist or lobbyist) who was credited at the time with being the "Father of the Revolution."  His philosophical grasp on humanity (and subsequent authoring of "Common Sense" was said to have set the stage for the Founding Fathers' decision to declare independence.  He was quoted in his own publications as saying, "I  do not believe in the creed professed by the Jewish church, by the  Roman church, by the Greek church, by the Turkish church, by the Protestant church, nor by any  church that I know of...Each of those churches accuse the other of  unbelief; and for my own part, I disbelieve them all."  

2) George Washington was the first President of the United States.  He was a declared agnostic.  Upon appointing a military Chaplain who did not believe in the existence of Hell and who was not Ordained, many of the religious enlisted men called for dismissal of the Chaplain.  Washington appointed him anyway.  Washington originally wanted the First Amendment to read, "freedom from religious intolerance and compulsion."  From Biography.com

3) John Adams, the second president.  He began studies in law, but was threatened by his father to become Clergy.  From The Character of John Adams by Peter Shaw: "He  wrote that he found among the lawyers 'noble and gallant  achievments" but among the clergy, the 'pretended sanctity of some  absolute dunces'. Late in life he wrote: 'Twenty times in the  course of my late reading, have I been upon the point of breaking out, "This would be the best of all possible worlds, if there  were no religion in it!"  It  was during Adam's administration that the Senate ratified the Treaty of Peace and  Friendship, which states in Article XI that "the government of the  United States of America is not in any sense founded on the  Christian Religion," publicly declaring to the world our separation of church and state.

4) Thomas Jefferson, the main author of the Declaration of Independence and our third president.  Jefferson was abhorrently against organized religion.  He fully supported individual rights to express their own beliefs, but was himself quoted as saying,  "The Christian priesthood, finding the doctrines  of Christ levelled to every understanding and too plain to need  explanation, saw, in the mysticisms of Plato, materials with  which they might build up an artificial system which might, from its  indistinctness,  admit everlasting controversy, give  employment for their order, and introduce it to profit, power, and  pre-eminence. The doctrines which flowed from the lips of Jesus himself  are within the comprehension of a child; but thousands of volumes have  not yet explained the Platonisms engrafted on them:  and for this obvious reason that nonsense can never be explained."  Jefferson also referred to the Book of Revelations as "...the ravings of a maniac."  From: Thomas Jefferson, an Intimate History by Fawn M. Brodie

5) James Madison, the fourth President, and the man who suggested the Declaration of Independence be written.  Madison was quoted as saying, "During  almost fifteen centuries has the legal establishment of Christianity  been on trial. What have been its fruits? More or less in all places,  pride and indolence in the Clergy, ignorance and  servility in the laity, in both, superstition, bigotry and persecution."  Source:  The Madisons by Virginia Moore.

6)  Ethan Allen, a farmer, businessman, land speculator, philosopher, and writer.  He was an American Revolutionary War patriot and is best known as one of the founders of the U.S. state of Vermont, and for the capture of Fort Ticonderoga early in the American Revolutionary War.  From Religion of the American Enlightenment by G. Adolph Koch,  Allan is quoted, "That  Jesus Christ was not God is evidence from his own words... I am no Christian." When [Ethan] Allen  married Fanny Buchanan, he stopped his own wedding ceremony  when the judge asked him if he promised "to live with Fanny Buchanan  agreeable to the laws of God." Allen refused to answer  until the judge agreed that the God referred to was the God of Nature,  and the laws those "written in the great book of  nature."

7) Benjamin Franklin, Delegate of the Continental Congress and the Constitutional Convention.  Franklin was labeled a Deist, although his writings suggest a more Agnostic sponsor.  Franklin was quoted (one month before his death):  "As  to Jesus of Nazareth, my Opinion of whom you particularly desire, I think the System of  Morals and his Religion...has received various corrupting Changes, and I  have, with most of the present dissenters in  England, some doubts as to his Divinity; tho' it is a question I do not  dogmatize upon.... and think it  needless to busy myself with it now, when I expect soon an opportunity  of knowing the truth with less trouble."

Furthermore, the words "In God We Trust" did not appear on American currency as a mandatory inclusion until 1956.  The phrase was suggested as early as 1861 by Rev. M. R. Watkinson.  An act which allowed the phrase to be used on currency was passed on April 22, 1864.  The motto on US currency prior to that change read "E pluribus unum," which translates as "from many, one."

I have to clarify that these words are in no way an indictment of religion, it's simply to point out why I clench my fists and the hairs on the back of my neck stand up when someone says "America is a Christian nation."  It is not, it never was, and the founding fathers went to extreme lengths in the first words of the first amendment of the Constitution to ensure that it never would be.

Secondly, we are not "America."  No other country on the North or South American continents refers to the USA as America.  If you go to, for instance, Costa Rica and someone asks you where you are from, please do not answer "America."  You will get looks ranging from "no E36 M3, which country in America," to "you arrogant asswipe, you're not all that and a bag of chips."  In Canada, we are "the states."  In most of Latin America (Mexico, Central, and Southern America) we are "Estados Unidos."  But nowhere else are we called "America."  Leonard Bernstein caught a TON of flack from Puerto Rican people with his West Side Story tune which included the lyrics, "I want to live in America."  Puerto Ricans consider themselves American, even before PR was annexed as a US island.  When Bernstein wrote those lyrics, the response from Puerto Ricans was, "I don't get it, I'm already in America."

ddavidv
ddavidv UltimaDork
3/21/22 10:43 p.m.

The last time the JW's came a-calling, I (finally) told them I was an atheist. They told me to have a nice day and departed.

Well...I should have done that YEARS ago! laugh

Back when I used to travel around meeting people at homes and workplaces I encountered the occasional UberChristian, the kind who feels the need to bring another brother into the flock. "Do you know Jesus?" I have always been extremely turned off by this. Buddy, I'm here on business. Not a social call or a pop up tent revival. Yet these people think it is okay to blather on about Jesus saving me. Go. Away.

Imagine me piping up about how God is man-made every time someone tells me to have a 'blessed day'? How would that go over? Such a double standard. Memo to religious people:  this tactic doesn't work! Stop doing it!

And get off my lawn.

Duke
Duke MegaDork
3/21/22 10:46 p.m.
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:
z31maniac said:
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

I have not. If you have to pay, it's taking it's parody too seriously. 

You can become a Dudeist priest for free. smiley

It was a parody from the early days of the Internet. The guy who ran it at the time very honestly said that he pocketed the money before he sent you the certificate.

There's No Prob With Bob!

Enjoy your precious gift of Slack.

 

mad_machine
mad_machine GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
3/21/22 10:48 p.m.

thank you for pointing that out, Curtis.  I think we may be the only country arrogant enough to claim an entire continent as our name.. except for Australia which is perfectly allowed to because they are both a Country and an actual continent.

 

As for myself,  I turned to buddhism in High School.  Up until that point I had been a good Catholic kid who was also an Altar Boy.  Then I got sick, very sick, like almost dying of what was once called "comsumption" but was infact the first, and worst, flair up of my crohn's disease.  The whole parish was praying for me, but none of that helped one iota.  I had always been curious about buddhism as my Father had brought home a teak "laughing buddha" from Vietnam and it lived on our bookcase.  

 

The rest, as they say, is history.  I found buddhist mediation techniques helped immensely in controlling my Crohns, much more so than prayer or even medication, so I stuck with it and I think it has made me a much better person.

Curtis73 (Forum Supporter)
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3/21/22 11:24 p.m.

In reply to mad_machine :

Right?  You never hear Germans saying they're from Europe and expecting us to know that it means Germany.

Ian F (Forum Supporter)
Ian F (Forum Supporter) MegaDork
3/22/22 7:44 a.m.

In reply to Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) :

The Founding Father's views on religion may have been born some from their experiences with the organized religions of Europe at the time: mainly the Catholic Church and the Church of England. And how the governments and their related churches ruled over their peoples with an iron fist.  Thus churches of the time could be considered organizations based less on faith and more about power and controlling people. 

Duke
Duke MegaDork
3/22/22 8:52 a.m.

In reply to Ian F (Forum Supporter) :

Plus, they were actually perceptive enough to realize that there are many different faiths, none of which can accurately claim to be the "right" one.  So they thought it best to let each individual decide their own conscience (including those who do not have any faith at all).

 

Paul_VR6 (Forum Supporter)
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3/22/22 9:39 a.m.
Ian F (Forum Supporter) said Thus churches of the time could be considered organizations based less on faith and more about power and controlling people. 

Don't think much has changee tbh. 

Ian F (Forum Supporter)
Ian F (Forum Supporter) MegaDork
3/22/22 10:42 a.m.
Paul_VR6 (Forum Supporter) said:
Ian F (Forum Supporter) said Thus churches of the time could be considered organizations based less on faith and more about power and controlling people. 

Don't think much has changee tbh. 

Well, I don't necessarily disagree, but I am trying to be respectful of other's beliefs so I would consider that subject to be somewhat beyond the scope of this discussion, other than how it may apply to why some may have left religion. 

Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter)
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3/22/22 11:08 a.m.
Duke said:
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:
z31maniac said:
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to z31maniac :

Have you ever heard of the Church of the Subgenius? You could become a minister there for $50.

I have not. If you have to pay, it's taking it's parody too seriously. 

You can become a Dudeist priest for free. smiley

It was a parody from the early days of the Internet. The guy who ran it at the time very honestly said that he pocketed the money before he sent you the certificate.

There's No Prob With Bob!

Enjoy your precious gift of Slack.

 

This thread needs more Slack.

TheRev
TheRev Reader
3/22/22 11:22 a.m.

In reply to Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) :

"I clench my fists and the hairs on the back of my neck stand up when someone says "America is a Christian nation.""

As do mine, even though I am a Christian. First off, I share your frustration over the use of "America" to refer to the United States. Yep. I've no idea how to change that though since it is so deeply embedded in our culture and everyday language ("God bless America" or "America the beautiful"). Just another example of the folly and close-mindedness that comes from thinking your country is somehow divinely exceptional. 

As for the "Christian" part, I also actually agree completely there, too. I have studied the history you mention about the founding of our country and it was explicitly a reaction and rejection to the combination of church+state that led to centuries of extreme violence in Europe as it tore itself apart during the reformation era. So the question is, why do so many Christians insist so forcefully on this false idea? As someone coming from inside "church-world," I can tell you it's largely down to fear - fear of losing a perceived "it was better back in the 50's" that came from the substantial cultural changes in the 60's and 70's. Witness the rise of the religious right (I am not a fan for many reasons) that sought to fight cultural change by taking us back in time. Yet any honest observer would note, the 50's were rank with Jim-crow segregation, misogyny, and all sorts of awful things. But human nature is to mythologize the past when we fear the future. That's what you're seeing when segments of the Christian population shout "America is a Christian nation." They fear cultural change. They fear loss of cultural influence. Above all, they fear for their kids. Fear confounds logic and reason. 

So what is to be done with that reality? When you hear Christians say "America is a Christian nation," realize that it's probably coming from a place of fear. While I'm sure some are saying it hatefully or judgmentally, most are just afraid because the world is changing fast and they don't know what their place or their kids' places will be in it. That realization tends to motivate some degree of compassion for them (at least in my experience). As for me, I just pray that God will help them not be afraid. Fear and love don't go well together. So if the great goal is to fill the world with God's love, fear is a great obstacle. I also try to gently remind any of them who ask me that the U.S. is decidedly not a Christian nation and has no special status in God's eyes (His kingdom is in the hearts of His people, not the halls of power of any nation), and that the church has actually done better at following Jesus when we did not have power and simply lived sacrificial lives of love. That's how I see it at least. 

Curtis73 (Forum Supporter)
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3/22/22 11:52 a.m.

In reply to TheRev :

I recall when I lived in the midwest there was a big trend of bumper stickers that said, "Jesus, God's gift to America."

Ummm... y'all know that this is bigger than just us, right?  and America didn't exist when God gifted Jesus, right?  It's not like God bought a savings bond for a potential future grandkid.  I have this mental image of Jesus hanging out in a safe deposit box for 1700 years just waiting for Thomas Jefferson to open it.

That same religious right sponsored so many BS justifications.  Dan White murdered Harvey Milk and was acquitted because he was "troubled" due to the chemicals present in all the twinkies he ate.  He wasn't labeled for what he was - an amoral homophobic shiny happy person, he just ate too many twinkies.  He was a Christian, Milk was gay, it was totally justified because Jesus.

Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter)
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) SuperDork
3/22/22 1:18 p.m.
Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) said:

In reply to TheRev :

That same religious right sponsored so many BS justifications.  Dan White murdered Harvey Milk and was acquitted because he was "troubled" due to the chemicals present in all the twinkies he ate.  He wasn't labeled for what he was - an amoral homophobic shiny happy person, he just ate too many twinkies.  He was a Christian, Milk was gay, it was totally justified because Jesus.

I was in High School in that area when the Milk/Moscone murders went down. There was a lot more to that than White's support from the religious right. Dan White was old school San Francisco, Irish, grew up in an Irish Neighborhood and went to work in the San Francisco Fire Department that was filled with other old school Irishmen. When he was elected to the Board of Supervisors he represented an old school Irish neighborhood of people who had lived there forever, and all of the people in that neighborhood were hostile towards the newly forming gay community that was just starting to form down the road in the Castro. Harvey Milk was an outsider. A Jewish guy from New York who had worked on Wall Street, came out of the closet and decided to move to San Francisco and buy a Camera Shop in the Castro District. Most of the people the San Francisco's gay community at the time had moved to San Francisco from somewhere else. A large number of gay men who had been stationed in San Francisco had been expelled from the military and stayed there instead of going back home to be ostracized. Milk became politically active when the San Francisco Police Department literally went to war against the gay bars. Dan White, a fireman, was on the other side of that war.

This was beyond homophobia. There was a fear of all of the new people coming in from other places and taking over the old neighborhoods. Most of the people at that time happened to be gay. Now, strangely enough, the established LBGQ community is actually getting pushed out by the Silicon Valley bunch because of the high rents and there is resentment about that. Things are always changing and people are always afraid of change.

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