i have been with my wife for 7 years and married almost 3. life was great till after about the 1 year marriage mark. we are growing apart and probably about to start the divorce process. luckily she has no interest in the house and we are both reasonable people so this should go smooth.
i am trying to show the other side of things, but i do wish you luck at the same time. marriage is a tough thing
Congrats!
bluej wrote: thanks all. we're actually over 5 years together and living together already so there shouldn't be any surprises. i actively encourage her triathlon addiction and she more than tolerates my car addiction. good enough!
Tolerates???
You are GROSSLY underselling her.
Didn't you forget the part about she supplied the tow vehicle for your Challenge car, plus spent 3 days under the hood with you for a car that never ran?
You, sir, are very fortunate that she didn't get away while you were waiting too long!
My deepest congratulations to you both!
Congrats! 
You guys have definitely have been with each other long enough that this should be a walk in the park.
Well yeah, there's that. 8)
To be fair, I knew a week into it, I've just been waiting for her to come around to the idea of getting married at all.
SVreX wrote:bluej wrote: thanks all. we're actually over 5 years together and living together already so there shouldn't be any surprises. i actively encourage her triathlon addiction and she more than tolerates my car addiction. good enough!Tolerates??? You are GROSSLY underselling her. Didn't you forget the part about she supplied the tow vehicle for your Challenge car, plus spent 3 days under the hood with you for a car that never ran? You, sir, are very fortunate that she didn't get away while you were waiting too long! My deepest congratulations to you both!
Congrats. In two weeks my wife and I will have been married for 18 years, it really is worth it when you find the right person, have fun.
Congrats, best of luck to you!
Good luck.
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