I think it's about time for the 325i to move on. The plan is to ditch it, I'll take DW's 2004 TSX, and we'll buy her a new or lightly-used replacement. That's where you folks come in.
Budget: $30k-$40k. We paid $27,000 for her TSX new in 2004 without giving DW a heart attack. Simple inflation puts that number around $35,000 in 2017.
Requirements: No clutch. Fun to drive. Responsive but doesn't need to be overpowered. Comfortable and semi-luxurious. Midsize, not big. Probably 4 doors. AWD a plus but not required.
Reliability: Critical. We buy our cars and keep them a long time. This car needs to last 10-15 years, because the plan is to maybe never buy another one. In that time it is likely to get less than 100k miles on it, since DW has a short commute and will likely retire in the middle of that timespan. I'm not overly worried about the mileage but the years count too. I want something that's going to need routine maintenance but not major overhaul.
The TSX has given us remarkably little trouble, which is why I'm probably ditching the aging E46 even though I prefer driving it. The BMW is still solid but it has twice the mileage and is showing every single issue a 14-year-old, 120k+ BMW does. It has never stranded me and nothing major has ever broken, but it has a bunch of little things all over.
Obvious replacement choices are the Acura TLX, which is frankly where we'll start looking. I also want to show her an Accord (a little too conservative in 2004), Mazda 6 (she wasn't impressed by the 2004 version) and a Fusion. We'll probably also look at the WRX Premium and the Legacy, but Subaru head gaskets scare me a little, even still.
But part of me wants something nicer if we can afford it. So I'm also considering Audis, BMWs, Volvos, and even... Jaaaaaaaags. But no Mercedes - I won't own a Mercedes.
So, how much have the Europeans improved in reliability over the last 5-10 years? Because the 2000s were kind of a low point for the vaunted German engineering. Like I said, my 2003 BMW is fundamentally sound, but it has a dozen little things wrong with it that aren't even a question with the 2004 Acura.
I'm really not in the mood to stretch the budget for something that is also going to be less reliable in the long term. So what's the current take?