My wife was rear ended in her scion xA this morning. The car is totaled so I will need to find something pretty quick. We are both pretty shook up right now, I'm not really having any luck thinking of what else to get so I could use some ideas. She loved the xA because it fit her well (she is fairly short, prefers taller seating for visibility) also because it was simple and rock solid reliable. Other than consumables I've never had to touch it. However it is a fairly bad highway vehicle, high wind would blow it around to the point it was sometimes hard to control.
So in a new (used) car we are looking for something with a tallish seating position, reliable, also something larger than the xA (looking at having kids soon, xA is way too small for all the kid stuff). It must be safe, also thinking AWD would be a huge plus (we get lots of snow/ice). Budget is $10k max. Wife does not want a large SUV (tahoe, expedition,etc).
I know subaru is the default answer here but the cars in our price range are going to be NA EJ 2.5's in the 100k mi range. In our family there are 3 of them and every single one has had head gasket problems and I really have no desire to deal with that nonsense.
So what else am I left with?
CRV? high resale, probably only going to find one that has high miles or is beat for $10k
Rav4? same as the CRV plus they are just.. blah
Liberty diesel? don't know much about them but I imagine they could be unreliable?
Volvo xc70 or xc90? I like the idea of these but are they reliable?
Matrix/vibe? kinda blah, IDK
ford escape/mazda tribute/mercury whatever? I don't know anything about these.
RDX? maybe? don't know what condition I would get for 10k
Kia something? coworker has a sorento that has been nothing but garbage, thats all I know.
Whatever we end up with I plan on keeping it for a long time so it really needs to be reliable. I don't care about resale value.
Throw some ideas out there because I'm not thinking clearly.