Otto Maddox wrote:
This isn't directed at anybody in particular but I've never understood the adding the cost of housing to the cost of college. People regularly refer to room and board. Do they figure they won't need food or a place to live from the age of 18-22 if they skip college? Sure they might be able to mooch off their parents, but the same holds true for going to college. Most kids have a college within commuting distance from their parents' house.
In some areas, the college housing is bordering on profiteering. Where I went to college (IUP, western PA) was a very small town. In fact, the 12,000-student college nearly doubled the town's population and it was given its own zip code. Small, depressed, western PA town + a doubling of the housing demand = higher than normal housing prices. Fortunately, the town of Indiana, PA means the prices were still reasonable, but compared to the local norms they were very high. College housing is often dramatically higher than A) living with mom and dad, and B) skipping college and choosing a cheap place to live. Had I skipped college, my room and board would have been crazy cheaper than had I gone to college.
So, let's say I am a dirt-poor chicken farmer's son from East Texas. I act in the school plays and also play a mean linebacker for the football team. My dream is to produce and direct movies. To that end, I have immersed myself in learning the lingo, the screenwriting, the acting, and have even saved up the money (by selling eggs) to travel to Cannes for the film festival instead of going to Cancun for spring break with my football buddies. I use my experience to produce a wonderfully crafted 30-minute short film that gets noticed by some colleges.
So, I get some scholarship offers:
1) NYU offers me a tuition scholarship for the film school. A free $190,000 education that requires finding a $1700/mo apartment and expensive public transportation.
2) UCLA offers me a tuition scholarship for their film school. A free $110,000 education that requires a $1200/mo apartment and pathetic public transportation that requires purchasing, registering, smogging, insuring, and fueling a car with CA legendary vehicle ownership costs.
3) Texas A&M offers me a full ride in the Chicken Sciences college and a bench spot on the football team. A free $60,000 education with no room and board costs, I can use daddy's Dodge, and if I don't blow out my knee while the pro scouts are watching, I will at least have a degree in chicken farming.
4) The local community college offers an associate's degree in diesel mechanics. I can live at home and train to enter the exciting and high-demand world of diesel engine repair.
On the one hand, you can be financially miserable chasing your life's dream, or you can be emotionally miserable chasing a financial easy street for four years. Which one will come back and bite you in the ass? It depends on what type of person you are. To choose the college you attend based solely on room and board isn't the issue, its whether or not the total cost of where you are now versus where you would be if you A) pursued your dreams in college, or B) went to a college based solely on the financial advantage.
If college is too expensive, if you can't recoup its cost in a reasonable amount of time after you graduate, then change your plans. Live at home, get a part-time job, join ROTC, go to junior college, take only a few classes at a time or failing all else, skip college and get a job. I went through this whole process over 20 years ago and it worked out fine for me. It just required a lot of hard work and planning.
Is that too harsh?
No. Its harsh, but not too harsh. I could afford college. I went to a state university where tuition and housing were cheap, but it had a good fine arts department. I was right smack in the middle of the bell curve. The extreme left side of the bell curve would argue that John Q. Ghetto who is a street-living drug dealer/prodigal musician has the same right to choose his education as John Q. Rockefeller who excels at nothing but wants a document saying he's smart. The extreme right would respond more like you did.