DrBoost
DrBoost MegaDork
9/26/24 11:15 a.m.

Back in early June I decided it was time to get the ball rolling to get my gallbladder out. It’s been an issue for years, and I decided I was done ignoring it.
After a few doc’s appointments and an ultrasound it was determined that yes, my gallbladder and I were soon to be divorced. An appointment was made with a surgeon to get the date set. The doc said if I get a fever I should just go to the ER because my GB was infected.

Fast forward a few days to June 19 and I have a fever. 102.6. Mrs. Boost says to saddle up, she’s taking me to the ER. The ER doc says she’ll take it out that night, or early the next morning, just depends on the surgeon’s schedule. My wife tells the nurse that we may have been exposed to COVID a few days earlier. Yes, we went to a grad party 5 days before. One of the guests had been sick for days, fever, weakness, no smell, all the COVID symptoms. She didn’t self-test. She and her mom decided it would be ok for her to go to a party with 100 people of all ages.

You can see where I’m going here. I (and at least 4 others) tested positive for ‘rona. They said they won’t intubate with any sort of respiratory issue and admitted me to the hospital for IV anti-biotics to knock the infection down so I could wait until I was fully recovered to get the GB out.

Surgery was scheduled for a few weeks later. The COVID turned into pneumonia for me. 6 weeks of that, missed my 2nd surgery date. Rescheduled for about 4 weeks later. The pneumonia was a long, slow recovery. I did feel better a week before my 3rd surgery date, (August 28th) so we went ahead with it.

My ‘routine out-patient’ surgery wasn’t so routine, and wasn’t out-patient lol.  My surgery was at 7:30 am. 30-45 minute procedure, they watch you come out of anesthesia, then observe you for another hour or so. I figured I’d be home around noon or so. Nope. I wasn’t coming out of the anesthesia. I would rouse, but just fall right back to sleep. At 4:30 they determined I wasn’t safe to go home (fall risk, I 100% agree) so they admitted me.

The next morning the surgeon comes in my room and asks why I’m there. My wife says “did you not read the chart” and the surgeon just assumes I’m in there because of the pain. I tell her more than once I’m good with the pain, but I was admitted due to fall-risk and explain the situation. She hears none of it. She’s just a condescending jerk that belittles me because she thinks I’m in there because of the pain.

She orders me to be discharged pretty much right away. That’s fine. I don’t need to be there now anyway.

I get home late morning and am groggy and starting to have a hard time breathing. A few hours later my wife takes me to urgent care because I’m losing color, am struggling to breathe, and lethargic. At the ER they tell us that both of my lungs are collapsed, and yup, back to the hospital.

Over the next few days the docs do chest x-rays, then a CAT scan to see what’s going on with my lungs. The day after the CAT scan the doc comes in to assure me the pneumonia is gone, so that’s great news. Then he says “sometimes we go in looking for something and don’t find it. But we sometimes find something else instead. We found a large mass in your lungs, basically the area that connects your lungs, the brachea to put it simply.” It’s nothing that’s keeping you here. Follow up with your doc, they’ll order a PET scan……” and goes on to explain a PET scan. I already know the C word is my next possible issue.

A 5-6 day stint in the ER and I’m good enough to go home but have a long 2 weeks or so of building my breathing back up.  I have the PET scan and an ECHO of the heart. The tumor is not cancer, thank god. Now we just need to follow up with a thoracic doc to figure out what the heck it is, and if there are any next steps.

I’m back to 100% to others (by observation) but probably 85% in reality. I took a walk around the block last night with my wife and a normal walk felt like a hard jog/light run to my lungs. House and car projects are stacking up. I’m paying a lawn service to cut my grass and a pool service for my mom’s pool. I feel very useless right now, but it’s better than feeling very dead. 

Now, if that weren’t enough, my wife and I are still dealing with my mom’s dementia and taking care of her and my two mentally-disabled sisters. Oh, and in the final stages of a lawsuit with our insurance company over the damage to my house and property after hurricane Ian.

Not looking for pity, just figured it’d be a good thing to just put all this down on pixel paper. It does feel good. I feel a little less weight on my shoulders.

 

 

TLDR: the Dodge Rampage is the only ‘ute worth having, and only if it has a GLH or SRT-4 powertrain in it.

Mndsm
Mndsm MegaDork
9/26/24 11:22 a.m.

In reply to DrBoost :

How hard would that swap be?

 

Also glad you survived all that.

 

thedoc
thedoc GRM+ Memberand HalfDork
9/26/24 11:39 a.m.

Wow

talk about drinking from a fire hydrant!

hang in there

thedoc
thedoc GRM+ Memberand HalfDork
9/26/24 11:39 a.m.

Wow

talk about drinking from a fire hydrant!

hang in there

Streetwiseguy
Streetwiseguy MegaDork
9/26/24 11:59 a.m.

Eek.  I hope you've told Covid Mary the result of her stupidity.

hobiercr
hobiercr GRM+ Memberand UberDork
9/26/24 12:15 p.m.

Man, that is a lot to manage. Be kind to yourself and don't feel guilty offloading things like the lawn, pool care,  etc. Right now you need to worry about you. There is only one of you.

CrustyRedXpress
CrustyRedXpress GRM+ Memberand Dork
9/26/24 12:18 p.m.

Hey Friend, it's ok to vent =)

It sounds like you have a lot going on-make sure you put your oxygen mask on first before attempting to help others.

EDIT: And yeah, tell Covid Mary how badly she screwed up.

 

 

Duke
Duke MegaDork
9/26/24 12:39 p.m.

Wow, I'm very sorry to hear all of this. Very glad to hear it's not cancer.

You've got a lot on your head right now and I'm glad it helped to talk about it a little. I really hope everything works out eventually.

 

crankwalk (Forum Supporter)
crankwalk (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand UltraDork
9/26/24 1:28 p.m.

That sucks buddy. Take it day by day and cut yourself some slack. Set aside plenty of time for you to rest and recover and don't feel guilty about doing it.  

DrBoost
DrBoost MegaDork
9/26/24 2:23 p.m.

Thanks all. The point about putting on your oxygen mast first was a good point, thanks. It made the point.  
As far as Covid Mary, my daughter knows who it is, but doesn't know her. I told my daughter to never tell me who she is or I'd have serious words with her and her mom. My good friend is the grads father. I think he passed on some strong words to that family since he watched me struggle with every breath for 6 weeks, then 2-3 more after the collapse. 

slefain
slefain UltimaDork
9/26/24 3:02 p.m.

bmw88rider
bmw88rider GRM+ Memberand UberDork
9/27/24 11:54 a.m.

Feel better Brother. Agree on the R&R time. I did my share of hospital time this year and that was the hardest thing for me but I'm glad I did it. 

 

I hear you on the GB removal and not coming cleanly out of the anthesisia. I had a very similar thing happen  and they almost had to admit me as well. I was maybe 30 minutes to an hour away. 

VolvoHeretic
VolvoHeretic GRM+ Memberand SuperDork
9/27/24 12:43 p.m.

Sorry to hear of all of the troubles your having. I don't believe in much but I want to believe that we earn good and bad luck. You must have earned a lot of good luck over the years and not much bad to have overcome so many health issues at one time. Hang in there and wishing you more good luck and a speedy recovery.

DrBoost
DrBoost MegaDork
9/27/24 1:17 p.m.

In reply to bmw88rider :

My wife was scared, watching me not being able to come out of it. She asked if I was worried. I said nope, I was sleep. Even if you saw my eyes and heard my voice, I was asleep lol.  

Best sleep I ever got.

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