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bobzilla
bobzilla MegaDork
10/12/20 2:00 p.m.

Long haired shephards are the wife's delight. I like mutts. We've had a few. New puppies are a lot of work. we are remembering this after 16 years. The last 2 we got were 6 months old and already potty trained. Made it easier. The oldest now is 12 and she is our cat-dog. Great dog.... with the personality of a cat. I love her dearly. The wife needs the big lover. 

The nice thing with long haired GSD is they shed twice a year. The bad thing is they shed twice a year. It's more like molting or a snake shedding it's entire skin in the matter of a week. IT's messy.

My favorite (truely a "daddies girl") was a border collie mix. So smart. So stubborn. Had the most personality of any animal I've ever been blessed to be around. Shed 24/7/365. Every 3-4 days she would drop all of her hair and have fresh. I wish this was an exaggeration. 

The truly worst part of being a good dog owner is they leave us so early. 10-15 year for medium to large sized dogs. Its hard. But I wouldn't trade that time with them for anything.

Anyone else notice all the dust in the air right now?

Curtis73 (Forum Supporter)
Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
10/12/20 2:02 p.m.
Justjim75 said:

Curtis, I'm sorry you don't like dogs, maybe get a cat next.

Yeah.  I hate them so much that I've had 9 in the last 15 years, ran a doggie day care, and my wife was a veterinarian.  Just awful animals.  Did you read any of that?  How did you come to assume I don't like dogs?

84FSP
84FSP UltraDork
10/12/20 2:13 p.m.

We have had a bunch of different puppers over the years.  Current love is a pair of great danes.  They are fantastic family animals being gentle derpy giants.  Only negative is 30lbs of dog food a week and short life spans.  With the right foods (correct protein/fat/calcium) and glucosamine chondritin the joint issue are non-issues at least until they are near the end i.e. 7-9 years old.

Floating Doc (Forum Supporter)
Floating Doc (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand UberDork
10/12/20 2:34 p.m.
Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) said:
z31maniac said

Isn't Floating Doc a Veterinarian? 

I forget.  He's either a vet or something to do with the pet food industry.  I think he and I have sparred before on this topic and agreed to disagree.  He does know his stuff, and I respect his take on it, I just disagree.

I don't profess to know as much as he does on the veterinary side of things, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.  heheh.  In reality, I was married to a veterinarian for 20 years.  It was she who did the outside-the-lines research that led us to feed raw.  We'll say she was a GRVer

College of Veterinary Medicine, University of FL, class of 1997. Been at this for a while.

Despite what I so frequently hear when discussing nutrition, our role is to provide for animal and human health, not to schill for the pet food industry. 

I could start by citing studies about the difference in the genetics for carbohydrate digestion in domestic dogs versus wild dogs and wolves, but it's my day off.

The lawn needs mowing, my Subaru has a power steering leak, I've got laundry going, and I'm cooking dinner tonight. 

I love you guys, but I think I'll just stay out of these discussions from now on.

 

 

Teh E36 M3
Teh E36 M3 SuperDork
10/12/20 2:49 p.m.

I don't want this to go off the rails- I understand there are passions about this subject. I'd prefer this not degenerate into a "if x is true then don't get a dog". I think the implication there is that a person is incapable of raising a dog to their standard and really undercuts the totality of an individuals experience. 

I don't know Curtis personally but from reading years of his posts he seems like one of the nicest and most generous people out there. FlotingDoc also seems like a great person who gives great advice. 
 

For myself- I think that I'm even asking about it, and hesitant about it should indicate that I take it seriously. I may have been a little hard on wife and daughter but that is my grumbly bias. They take wonderful care of our cat and love the snot out of him even though he just wants to be left alone. 
 

Regardless, I take from this:

-it's a lifestyle change. 
-mutts are good. 
-puppies are a challenge. 
-crate train. 
-devote time and energy toward making the dog a good person. 
-feed them well. 
 

anything else?
 

mtn (Forum Supporter)
mtn (Forum Supporter) MegaDork
10/12/20 2:55 p.m.
Teh E36 M3 said:

I don't want this to go off the rails- I understand there are passions about this subject. I'd prefer this not degenerate into a "if x is true then don't get a dog". I think the implication there is that a person is incapable of raising a dog to their standard and really undercuts the totality of an individuals experience. 

I don't know Curtis personally but from reading years of his posts he seems like one of the nicest and most generous people out there. FlotingDoc also seems like a great person who gives great advice. 
 

For myself- I think that I'm even asking about it, and hesitant about it should indicate that I take it seriously. I may have been a little hard on wife and daughter but that is my grumbly bias. They take wonderful care of our cat and love the snot out of him even though he just wants to be left alone. 
 

Regardless, I take from this:

-it's a lifestyle change. 
-mutts are good. 
-puppies are a challenge. 
-crate train. 
-devote time and energy toward making the dog a good person. 
-feed them well. 
 

anything else?
 

Research the breed you're considering - even most mutts you can take a good guess at what it is a mix of.

RevRico
RevRico GRM+ Memberand UltimaDork
10/12/20 3:08 p.m.
Toyman01 (Moderately Supportive Dude) said:

The main thing I took away from the OP is this.

They want a dog and you are going to get stuck taking care of it. You will end up hating the dog. The breed won't matter. 
 

My recommendation is don't get a dog. 

 

 

This is what I came to say. 

Don't get me wrong, I like dogs, but in the last 10 years I've had to be the responsible party for 6 dogs that weren't even mine. People realize they couldn't handle them from the size, the attitude, or getting bored, or the lifestyle changes, and I wound up having to take care of them.

Really sucks a lot of the fun out of having pets when their owners can't handle them and now your entire life has to change to fix it.

We're dog free, for the first time in my life, at the new house, and I gotta say it's a nice change of pace.

Vacations, long shifts at work, chasing the child around, all things made considerably harder with another mouth to feed.

I would recommend a lab though. Always had them growing up, only breed I haven't had any aggression issues with, but if they can't eat it or hump it, they'll piss on it, so that's something to keep in mind. And they will eat anything.

Center of an oval braided rug, skirt of a loveseat, coffee table, can of shaving cream, packs of chocolate Reeses eggs, and that was just one dog. My favorite though was when they were old and hip displaces really set in so they could barely walk, they'd still manage to steal dinner that was thawing out in the sink.

Justjim75
Justjim75 Dork
10/12/20 3:13 p.m.

In reply to Teh E36 M3 :

Bingo!

Mndsm
Mndsm MegaDork
10/12/20 3:51 p.m.
Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) said:
Floating Doc (Forum Supporter) said:
yupididit said:

Anyone ever do a raw diet for their dog? 

BAD IDEA! 

I've seen some really sick dogs from eating raw diets.

There's a lot of food fads when it comes to feeding dogs. I've honestly been hesitant to post about any of them, since the reaction is often the same as asking someone who they're going to vote for or where they go to church. 

This one will put the dog and the family at risk for salmonella, listeriosis, or other serious food poisoning. There are warnings about this from the FDA and the American Veterinary Medical Association. 

I'd link them, but I found out last night that if I open another window on my phone, it clears out my post in the current thread. 

Another food fad that is especially serious is grain free dog food. There's no nutritional benefit to avoiding grains in dogs, and grain allergies are not at all significant in food allergic dogs. The only benefit to the widespread marketing of grain-free foods is to the dog food manufacturers. 

There are cases of heart failure related to grain-free foods. I've seen young healthy dogs come in to the office gasping for breath and with whopping murmurs after only a few weeks of eating one of the boutique brands.

Other dogs can eat these foods and be fine, or may not progress into full blown heart failure, but will develop less serious heart damage.

The cardiology specialists that are working on the issue are currently giving the following advice: avoid what they call BEG foods. Boutique brand, Exotic ingredient, Grain free.

Exotic ingredient doesn't mean ostrich meat, it means sweet potatoes, potatoes, peas, lentils or other legumes.

I've seen dogs that were being fed foods that should not have caused a problem, and developed murmurs after the owner started feeding them sweet potatoes and peas to supplement their dog food.

The current recommendations are to feed food made by three different manufacturers. I've seen these same recommendations when reading the proceedings from two different lectures from last fall.

They both recommended feeding foods made by Mars (disclosure: the company I work for is owned by Mars), Hill's, or Purina. What sets these companies apart is that they do food trials. The food trials are done just like a drug trial.

 

I respectfully disagree.  While I agree that domestic dogs aren't wolves or hyenas, their digestive system is one thing that hasn't changed much from wild dogs through all the breeding.  I fed 9 dogs raw for 15 years.  All of them lived well past their expected lifespans.  Several of them are still alive including a 14 year old Pit that acts like she's 3 and an 18 year old chihuahua who (aside from macular degeneration) is still going strong.  I recently lost a French Bulldog.... at 15 years old.

A well-rounded and safe raw diet poses no harm to most dogs.  No more than you eating a rare steak or some good sushi.

The AMVA has no choice but to condemn raw diets.  First and foremost, they are covering their butts.  They have to say no just like every screwdriver you buy has 3 pages in the owner's manual that say you need gloves, eye protection, and a radiation suit before you even open the toolbox.  Secondly, the AMVA is heavily influenced by the commercial dog food industry.  Pet food companies put significant R&D into making their pet foods profitable and not poisonous, and significant money into advertising, lobbying, and endorsing their products to AMVA, just like McDonalds does to you.  Since raw diets don't have commercial interests, they have no AMVA endorsement.  Just like no one from the Broccoli Association is advertising that you cook broccoli at home as an alternative to going to McDonalds.  Not to mention, do a simple google search for "pet food recall" and look at how many animals died from commercial pet food over the last 10 years.

Cheap dog food is the equivalent of fast food for you.  Good commercial dog food is like eating Panera every day; a little better, but still processed junk, It is either full of useless, cheap, profitable filler that doesn't rot, filled with preservatives, or cooked to death in extremely hot ovens until it is one step away from charcoal so it doesn't rot.

Having said that, I currently feed Moxie Buffalo Blue because furloughs don't pay very well and the days of 99-cent per pound briskets and $1.29 chickens are long gone.  She has gained weight, poops way more, has much more gas, and her energy is way down on commercial dog food.  Her vet doesn't like her bloodwork either.  Still fine, but a definitely noticeable change.

I'm not advocating that everyone should feed raw any more than I would advocate how to raise your child, but raw feeders have been branded into the same group as tinfoil hats and anti-vaxxers and it's incredibly unfair, not to mention biased by things like the AMVA, but if you do the research there is little evidence to back up the claims.  Anyone who criticizes raw diets to me is no different than the screwdriver owner's manual criticizing me for not wearing steel-toed shoes when I put a screw in the wall to hang a picture.  I won't die using a screwdriver with Crocs on my feet.

Feel free to criticize the Crocs, though.

I refuse to believe that anything has any dietary needs specifically- when it can and will eat its own turds. 

jharry3
jharry3 GRM+ Memberand HalfDork
10/12/20 4:00 p.m.

I love dogs.  I had them for years.  Some I really made connections with.  Others were dumb as dirt.  That is the past.

Stick with cats.   They can take care of themselves if you leave for the weekend or the week.   Just leave out lots of food, water, and and several clean litter boxes to start. (It helps to have a two story house so they get exercise)  You get home and they just give you this look like "here we go again".   Litter box cleaning isn't fun but at least you know where it will be when its time.    You should crate train your dog but then it leaves land mines in  your yard.  Either do yard duty daily or grass cutting becomes more dangerous to your shoes.

Dogs can't be left alone.  Some will tear up your house, your garden.   The really smart ones, like border collies need a job.  If they don't have one they are very creative.   Sofa cushions are the devil.   Stuff on top the fridge?  It needed to be on the floor you silly human.     

Boarding dogs is expensive.  We once spent more on a week's boarding of our dog than my portion of  the trip we took. 

 I told my wife that next time I would stay home with the dog and use the boarding money to buy car parts.    This did not go over very well.   

DrBoost
DrBoost MegaDork
10/12/20 4:05 p.m.

I'll add this info:  

The best dog breed is the Akita.....for the right owner. They are VERY smart, strong, proud, and loyal to the death. But they take a firm hand while pups, then they are mellow and perfect when they learn their place in the pack. They have two shedding seasons, heavy and torrential. 

I've had two Akitas and have been astounded by how great they are. Here's a pic of my last dog chasing the cat that used to antagonize her. Believe it or not, they are just playing and the only harm the cat suffered is LOTS of slob all over it when the dog caught it.  

Snowdoggie
Snowdoggie HalfDork
10/12/20 4:55 p.m.
jharry3 said:

I love dogs.  I had them for years.  Some I really made connections with.  Others were dumb as dirt.  That is the past.

Stick with cats.   They can take care of themselves if you leave for the weekend or the week.   Just leave out lots of food, water, and and several clean litter boxes to start. (It helps to have a two story house so they get exercise)  You get home and they just give you this look like "here we go again".   Litter box cleaning isn't fun but at least you know where it will be when its time.    You should crate train your dog but then it leaves land mines in  your yard.  Either do yard duty daily or grass cutting becomes more dangerous to your shoes.

Dogs can't be left alone.  Some will tear up your house, your garden.   The really smart ones, like border collies need a job.  If they don't have one they are very creative.   Sofa cushions are the devil.   Stuff on top the fridge?  It needed to be on the floor you silly human.     

Boarding dogs is expensive.  We once spent more on a week's boarding of our dog than my portion of  the trip we took. 

 I told my wife that next time I would stay home with the dog and use the boarding money to buy car parts.    This did not go over very well.   

I know people who feel the same way about cars. Expensive. Always breaking down. Always wasting your weekend washing it and taking it in for oil changes and such. Why not ride the bus and Uber where ever you have to go. And why would ANYBODY need more than one car.

This probably would not go over well here. laugh

jstein77
jstein77 UberDork
10/12/20 5:08 p.m.

I too was a cat person all my life, until this Golden named Teddy fell into my life.  He was the best dog ever.  Now I'm an all animal person, not just a cat person.

Justjim75
Justjim75 Dork
10/12/20 5:24 p.m.

When suggesting breeds please try to keep in mind teh e36 m3 is a first timer.  An Akita is not the best choice for him in my opinion. Certain breeds are naturally obedient, others you have to prove you're the boss, sometimes it can be either for dogs of the same breed or even the same litter.

Everyone has had different experiences, most fairly limited. 

Check out Dogs 101 on YouTube, it can be very fun for the whole family 

CJ (He's Just an FS)
CJ (He's Just an FS) GRM+ Memberand HalfDork
10/12/20 5:38 p.m.

We have had Golden Retrievers for many years.  They are absolutely wonderful pets and are great with kids.  They do shed some if they aren't groomed. 

Our friends have had several Corgis - have to be the smartest dogs I have ever seen.  Their current Corgi is not supposed to walk the carpet.  The dog *will not* walk on the carpet - but he will lay his head on the carpet, but that's not walking now, is it?  cheeky

We have had mostly mutts over the years. Most of them have been big dogs either picked up from the pound or off the side of the road. Rotty mixes, Lab mixes, Shepard mixes. All great dogs. 

I've owned my last big dog though. 

8 years ago we adopted a 15+ year old Pomeranian named Dusty. His owner had died of old age and nobody wanted a old dog until we came along. If there was ever a perfect dog, Dusty was it. Always cheerful, playful, clean, and unlike several of my kids, he would listen. When he wanted out, he let you know. He didn't need to be walked. He would sit at the door and woof to be let out. He never left the yard even though it wasn't fenced. And when it was time to come in, he would sit by the door and bark twice. Two years later, cancer took him away. By that time I was sold on small dogs. 

A couple of years later we stopped by the pound and came home with Maddie and Napoleon. 

Maddie is a Chihuahua mix and Napoleon is some kind of rat dog mix. 

Maddie is clean, dainty, loving, bossy, and always cold. She has an opinion on just about everything and isn't scared to let you know about it.

Napoleon is, lets just say they are opposites. He should have been named Gilligan. If there is a speck of dirt somewhere, he will find it and it will stick to him and he is as goofy as they come. He has not a care in the world as long as there is no one at the door. Or in sight of the security cameras. 

If you go small, consider getting two. Ours keep themselves entertained most of the time. We can leave them home for the day and not have to worry they will eat the house. They are trained to use pee pads if they need to. If we are going for the weekend, they frequently go with us. They go to the track and camping with us and and love nothing better than going for a ride. 

 

DrBoost
DrBoost MegaDork
10/12/20 6:07 p.m.
Justjim75 said:

When suggesting breeds please try to keep in mind teh e36 m3 is a first timer.  An Akita is not the best choice for him in my opinion. Certain breeds are naturally obedient, others you have to prove you're the boss, sometimes it can be either for dogs of the same breed or even the same litter.

Everyone has had different experiences, most fairly limited. 

Check out Dogs 101 on YouTube, it can be very fun for the whole family 

I tried (and apparently failed) to convey that the Akita is not the right dog for everyone. I didn't want to say "don't get an Akita, you're not the right kind of person". I didn't want to offend. 
i've acttild two people that I personally know, that they should NOT get an Akita. 
awesome dogs, nust not for the first-timer, or the passive owner. 

BlueInGreen - Jon (Forum Supporter)
BlueInGreen - Jon (Forum Supporter) UltraDork
10/12/20 6:18 p.m.

Well tonight dog #2 decided that eating random turds in the yard wasn’t enough so he should roll around in it too. So there’s that.

What about a snuggly cat?

Justjim75
Justjim75 Dork
10/12/20 7:16 p.m.

In reply to DrBoost :

I hope I didn't come off as upset about it, so hard to hear tone of voice and see body language here!  

So much of this is subjective.

Here in Alabama it would be cruel to get something like a Newfoundland and leave it outside at noon in August, or bring a Bull Mastif to your elderly grandparents apartment home in the retirement community, it would wreak havoc on the porcelain nic nacs and maw maw would end up with a broken hip.  Dog personalities are as varied as the humans we have dated but they also have significant physical differences as well.  

 

ProDarwin
ProDarwin MegaDork
10/12/20 7:25 p.m.

This is my mutt.   He's my best friend and I could not imagine life without him.  I will be destroyed when that day comes.

That said, I probably won't be looking for another because as mentioned, dogs are a lot of commitment, especially when you are the only one in your household who can provide care.

Furious_E (Forum Supporter)
Furious_E (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand UltraDork
10/12/20 7:53 p.m.

Damn it, I had a long post typed up and lost it. Short version: Be realistic about what level of mental and physical engagement you are able and willing to provide and pick a breed that suits your lifestyle. Expect some chaos along the way, and it's not a decision to be taken lightly, but in the end it's totally worth it IMO.

Here's my 5 year old Lab/Aussie Shepherd mix waiting for me to throw his tennis ball for the 500th time already tonight.

Curtis73 (Forum Supporter)
Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
10/12/20 8:04 p.m.
Floating Doc (Forum Supporter) said:
Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) said:
z31maniac said

Isn't Floating Doc a Veterinarian? 

I forget.  He's either a vet or something to do with the pet food industry.  I think he and I have sparred before on this topic and agreed to disagree.  He does know his stuff, and I respect his take on it, I just disagree.

I don't profess to know as much as he does on the veterinary side of things, but I did stay at a Holiday Inn Express last night.  heheh.  In reality, I was married to a veterinarian for 20 years.  It was she who did the outside-the-lines research that led us to feed raw.  We'll say she was a GRVer

College of Veterinary Medicine, University of FL, class of 1997. Been at this for a while.

Despite what I so frequently hear when discussing nutrition, our role is to provide for animal and human health, not to schill for the pet food industry. 

I could start by citing studies about the difference in the genetics for carbohydrate digestion in domestic dogs versus wild dogs and wolves, but it's my day off.

The lawn needs mowing, my Subaru has a power steering leak, I've got laundry going, and I'm cooking dinner tonight. 

I love you guys, but I think I'll just stay out of these discussions from now on.

 

 

That's right, forgot.

I don't think you should stay out.  I have great respect for you, and you definitely have the education to know what you're talking about.  I put screws in wood :)  We can disagree and still hug it out.

z31maniac
z31maniac MegaDork
10/12/20 8:21 p.m.

In reply to Curtis73 (Forum Supporter) :

Apologies for the colorful language in this gif, but it felt appropriate. 

https://tenor.com/view/entourage-hug-hugging-bromance-gif-4271192

frenchyd
frenchyd PowerDork
10/12/20 8:30 p.m.
jharry3 said:

I love dogs.  I had them for years.  Some I really made connections with.  Others were dumb as dirt.  That is the past.

Stick with cats.   They can take care of themselves if you leave for the weekend or the week.   Just leave out lots of food, water, and and several clean litter boxes to start. (It helps to have a two story house so they get exercise)  You get home and they just give you this look like "here we go again".   Litter box cleaning isn't fun but at least you know where it will be when its time.    You should crate train your dog but then it leaves land mines in  your yard.  Either do yard duty daily or grass cutting becomes more dangerous to your shoes.

Dogs can't be left alone.  Some will tear up your house, your garden.   The really smart ones, like border collies need a job.  If they don't have one they are very creative.   Sofa cushions are the devil.   Stuff on top the fridge?  It needed to be on the floor you silly human.     

Boarding dogs is expensive.  We once spent more on a week's boarding of our dog than my portion of  the trip we took. 

 I told my wife that next time I would stay home with the dog and use the boarding money to buy car parts.    This did not go over very well.   

I've had and loved cats. Heck I really like any animal more than most people. The problem I have with cats is the damage they do to our Bird population.  
 
Both domestic and Feral cats kill more than a Billion birds a year. ( Feral slightly more than domestic. )  I used to wake up in the morning to birds singing. Gradually they grew quiet as I noticed more and more dead birds on the deck in front of the house.  
   I suppose I should find the number of birds hunters take each year and list that for perspective. But I doubt it's even approaching what cats kill. 
 

ShawnG
ShawnG UltimaDork
10/12/20 8:39 p.m.

In reply to frenchyd :

Or, you know, keep the little murder machines indoors like ours.

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