914Driver
914Driver MegaDork
6/19/21 1:20 p.m.

Our 5 year old Chiweenie.  Good dog, hardly barked, very bright, smiling enthusiasm all the time.  She is curious about everything, mostly about this people puppy that has caught Mom's fancy.  We were to spend the weekend at our son and daughter in law's home and have a BBQ today with her parents and sister, including the husband & 2 kids (2 years & 2 months).

Ian heard stories from the guy across the street about post partum depression.  They have a 5 month old now but his wife would hop in the car at 2 or 3 in the morning, rolll down the windows, crank up the stereo and sit in a parking lot.  Daughter in law (DIL) had a baby 2 weeks ago.  DIL will remain nameless here as will the school system she is a child psychiatrist for.  Friday news reported two people found dead in a home.  Later we learn that the young deceased girl is a client or at least was appraised (evaluated?) by DIL.  She's a wreck, school keeps reaching out for her to come in.  The other deceased is the girl's Mom, very supportive and active in the school.  Mom offed the girl and then herself.

Too much crap on the world, my wife takes DIL shopping, Stu Leonard's is great!  Stopped at a garden center, life is a bit brighter.

Usually Trish texts when they leave somewhere to ensure the dogs (Stella and their 2) are inside.  She didn't.  Stella hears the car come up the driveway and bolts, ZERO line of site, couldn't have stopped in time even if you saw her.   Stella's gone.  Instantly.  

Tough night.  Lot of crying, no finger pointing, no coulda, shoulda stuff.  Tough ride home, Trish didn't know what to do with her hands for a 3 hour ride.  She napped, cried, napped & cried.  Home and tonight will be worse, first night without the 9lb. foot warmer listening for your every move.  She walked around the house picking up doggie stuff and bawling.  I do what I can.  Tomorrow will be better.

 

 

914Driver
914Driver MegaDork
6/19/21 1:20 p.m.

Pushrod
Pushrod Reader
6/19/21 2:03 p.m.

The world is definitely now a poorer place.  :(  That last picture of her really got me. I am sorry not to have made her acquaintance.  My best regards to your family in your time of sorrow.

OHSCrifle
OHSCrifle GRM+ Memberand SuperDork
6/19/21 2:15 p.m.

Ouch Sorry man. 

Marjorie Suddard
Marjorie Suddard General Manager
6/19/21 2:35 p.m.

Oh, she looks like a sweetheart. So sorry. Was the passenger when the same thing happened to a good friend in college, and I know how hard that was for her. Sometimes sucky things happen and it's no one's fault. Give Trish a hug for me.

Margie

Brett_Murphy (Agent of Chaos)
Brett_Murphy (Agent of Chaos) GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
6/19/21 2:57 p.m.

That's a bad day, sorry.

Stampie
Stampie GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
6/19/21 3:03 p.m.

Sorry man.

Mr_Asa
Mr_Asa UberDork
6/19/21 3:51 p.m.

Aww.  berkeley man.  I'm sorry.

914Driver
914Driver MegaDork
6/19/21 3:59 p.m.

Thanks folks, I thought a client's murder suicide would be enough to handle.

God won't give you more than you can handle .... ....

Toyman01 + Sized and
Toyman01 + Sized and GRM+ Memberand MegaDork
6/19/21 4:10 p.m.

Damn, I'm so sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and your wife. 

We had a close call a couple of months ago that required lots of surgery and recovery. 

914Driver
914Driver MegaDork
6/19/21 4:51 p.m.

Thanx Toy, but which is best?  They have coyotes and osprey at Ian's house, a split second of pain and confusion vs carried off?   Worrying?  For weeks?  Pass.

This is tough, made worse when Trish just came out sobbing to say  tomorrow is Stella's birthday.

Dan out ....

JThw8
JThw8 UltimaDork
6/19/21 5:51 p.m.

Man, I am crushed to hear that.  Last week I lost my baby Lilly in a similar "unavoidable, no blame" accident and Im still having trouble just thinking about it or even breathing most days.

I wish peace for you and the family.

914Driver
914Driver MegaDork
6/19/21 5:56 p.m.

 

In the backyard checking in with Ian, see how his wife is coping.  Trish comes out sobbing,

"Tomorrow is Stella's birthday". =~ 0

Balls!!

Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter)
Snowdoggie (Forum Supporter) Dork
6/19/21 6:05 p.m.

Sorry to hear man. Hang in there.

914Driver
914Driver MegaDork
6/20/21 5:47 a.m.

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