In reply to ebonyandivory:
A word as a contractor...
Your contractor friends are likely honest, trustworthy and competent, but may not be well versed in insurance claims work.
If you don't speak the language of insurance, you won't get the claim adjusted.
I never learned how to do insurance claim work. The biggest mistake of my life.
Some contractors (like me) are very good at assessing the scope, both seen and unseen. This leads to an accurate up-front estimate. Unfortunately, that's not the way insurance works.
Insurance adjusters are not skilled at assessing what they can not see, and NEVER will. (Their system will not allow it)
The contractors who are skilled at doing insurance work use Xactimate, itemize everything, price everything in unit pricing, and never include what is not seen in the initial estimate. This leads to a very low estimate up front, and gets them the job. What these contractors understand, however, is that the process allows for adjustments throughout the repair process. Most of these contractors can't estimate a job to save their lives- they will ultimately do the job for whatever the insurance settlement is. However, they are very skilled at change orders, and using the phrase "Well, it couldn't be seen before we got started". They know how to fight with insurance companies, and find their omissions, errors, and oversights in Xactimate.
I never learned this. It made me an honest businessman with a great reputation for good work, but people thought my prices were high (because I was honest up front). It worked fine when the economy was good, but no good at all when the economy tanked. Insurance claim work did not drop when the economy tanked. It grew. I just never learned to speak their lingo.
In the end, the prices are nearly identical between the man who can bid all the stuff unseen at the start, and the insurance claim settlement. (yours will probably be in the $40K range when it is all over). But the only way to get to the final number is to fight with the insurance company through the entire process.
The contractor you need for this job needs to be one who is well versed in insurance claim work. NOT one who has a reputation for honesty and integrity.
(In the real world, itemized pricing and unit pricing for construction repairs are stupid. It's like buying a car based on how many tires it has. All square feet are not equal, and there is no real way to itemize many construction remodel components. But THAT is the way the insurance world operates, and THAT is the ONLY way to resolve a claim with an insurance company).