Wally
Wally GRM+ Memberand SuperDork
4/3/10 8:26 p.m.

Does this principal sound a little creepy to anyone else? Paddling 17 high school girls for wearing short dresses. Giggity Giggity

http://www.wpbf.com/news/23025672/detail.html

Senior Suspended For Skimpy Prom Dress Dress Deemed Too Short, Revealing On Top POSTED: 1:01 pm EDT April 1, 2010 UPDATED: 1:23 pm EDT April 1, 2010 Email Print OXFORD, Ala. -- A high school senior in Alabama was suspended for wearing a prom dress that school officials said was too short at the hem and too revealing on top.

"I was so excited because it was my senior prom and I'd never been to a senior prom, so I was excited," Oxford High School student Erica DeRamus said.

DeRamus said she knew her school had dress code policies, but didn't think her dress would violate them. But when she got to prom Saturday, officials told her it was too short and too revealing.

"What cleavage? That's exactly what I said. I wasn't trying to be rude or anything, but that's what I feel," DeRamus said.

"If I felt it was too much cleavage in this dress, I wouldn't have purchased this dress," said her mother, Darrie DeRamus. "It would have stayed in that store and I wouldn't have even gotten it off the Internet and paid for it."

But principal Trey Holloday said it violated school policy stating that dresses cannot have cleavage falling below the breastbone or hems more than 6 inches above the knee.

"And so that expectation in our community is that it's there for protection of kids and not for management of kids," he said.

Erica's mother said she was never notified of the prom dress code.

But Holloday said all parents and students were told about it not once, but three times.

Of the 352 students who attended prom, 18 violated the policy, he said. Seventeen of them chose to be paddled, while DeRamus chose a three-day suspension, Holloday said.

"We're too old to be paddled," Erica DeRamus said. "This is high school. We are seniors. If you're going to act up, give us another option besides getting paddled, because this is not the 1940s. We don't take corporal punishment now."

"The thing that I would say is the difference between patience and tolerance," Holloday said. "They're young and sometimes they make young people's mistakes and we're very patient when those things are made, including this. But we're not tolerant of bad behavior or defiance."

mtn
mtn SuperDork
4/3/10 8:36 p.m.
the girl said: "I was so excited because it was my senior prom and I'd never been to a senior prom, so I was excited," Oxford High School student Erica DeRamus said.

Redundant much?

porksboy
porksboy Dork
4/3/10 8:45 p.m.

So did the kids get to stay at prom if they were paddled? Kinda defeats the purpose of the dress code doesnt it.

oldsaw
oldsaw Dork
4/3/10 9:02 p.m.

I thought the corporal punishment thing was a bit creepy decades ago. It was just a part of my culture-shock adjustment when moving south from Connecticut.

It's more than odd that schools still use it since parents can get arrested for abuse if they use the same punishment these days.

pete240z
pete240z Dork
4/3/10 10:59 p.m.

without pictures, this never happened.

JK - creepy town, USA with those dudes

SVreX
SVreX SuperDork
4/4/10 6:08 a.m.

17 chose to be paddled wearing skimpy outfits??

Woody
Woody GRM+ Memberand SuperDork
4/4/10 6:32 a.m.
SVreX wrote: 17 chose to be paddled wearing skimpy outfits??

"And the 17 winners of the free GRM Belly-Shirts are...."

BoxheadTim
BoxheadTim GRM+ Memberand Dork
4/4/10 6:53 a.m.

I bet some randy old goat got a kick out of measuring if the dresses went up further than 6 inches above the knee.

It's good to see that people still have the proper perspective on what's important in life.

Dr. Hess
Dr. Hess SuperDork
4/4/10 7:38 a.m.

WTF is the "breastbone"? I've studied this stuff. I've never heard of any of them called "breastbone." Is this like "foot bone connected to the ankle bone"? Oh that's right. It happened at a SCHOOL.

barnca
barnca New Reader
4/4/10 8:08 a.m.

maybe im wrong. but touch my kid there is a pretty good chance something of yours is goin to be broken when i find out.

MrJoshua
MrJoshua SuperDork
4/4/10 8:43 a.m.
Dr. Hess wrote: WTF is the "breastbone"? I've studied this stuff. I've never heard of any of them called "breastbone." Is this like "foot bone connected to the ankle bone"? Oh that's right. It happened at a SCHOOL.

Silly doctor, Everyone who attends anatomy classes in Austin knows this:

is called a "Breast Bone"

z31maniac
z31maniac Dork
4/4/10 9:21 a.m.
mtn wrote:
the girl said: "I was so excited because it was my senior prom and I'd never been to a senior prom, so I was excited," Oxford High School student Erica DeRamus said.
Redundant much?

Not if a senior asked a younger classmate to their senior prom.

Just saying...

Josh
Josh Dork
4/4/10 10:59 a.m.
SVreX wrote: 17 chose to be paddled wearing skimpy outfits??

To be fair, they did each get a free hat:

mtn
mtn SuperDork
4/4/10 12:18 p.m.
z31maniac wrote:
mtn wrote:
the girl said: "I was *so excited* because it was my senior prom and I'd never been to a senior prom, *so I was excited*," Oxford High School student Erica DeRamus said.
Redundant much?
Not if a senior asked a younger classmate to their senior prom. Just saying...

Nope.

slantvaliant
slantvaliant HalfDork
4/4/10 3:11 p.m.

I see a movie in the works.

"Prom Night Paddlefest", perhaps.

keethrax
keethrax Reader
4/4/10 3:25 p.m.
mtn wrote:
z31maniac wrote:
mtn wrote:
the girl said: "I was *so excited* because it was my senior prom and I'd never been to a senior prom, *so I was excited*," Oxford High School student Erica DeRamus said.
Redundant much?
Not if a senior asked a younger classmate to their senior prom. Just saying...
Nope.

Nice try. One refers specifically to her senior prom, one refers to any she may have gone to (which as was pointed out, isn't necessarily hers).

mad_machine
mad_machine GRM+ Memberand SuperDork
4/4/10 3:51 p.m.

not sure about you.. but I went to THREE senior proms.. only one of which was mine (obviously)

I went to a private school with a dress code.. the girls then and now used to shorten their day to day skirts shorter than that prom gown

wbjones
wbjones HalfDork
4/4/10 5:00 p.m.
mad_machine wrote: not sure about you.. but I went to THREE senior proms.. only one of which was mine (obviously)

brings to mind the Jeff Foxworthy line " if you refer to the 6th grade as my senior yr, you might be a redneck"

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