If they were so dangerous we would hear these stories every day. This is the first Tesla related fatality I've heard about in months.
What I do hear every day, are multiple accidents involving old, young, drunk, or distracted drivers. So much so that even if the police scanners say fatalities they don't even get a blurb in the paper unless there was a kid involved or a great deal of property damage.
Clearly, no matter how much safer we make manually operated vehicles, our production of distractions and just plain stupid people continues to out pace everything else.
Since its apparently illegal and "immoral" to let Darwinism weed out the useless and just plain stupid, no matter how good it would be for the species as a whole, we all need to accept that there will be a period of coexisting on everyone's part as the safer technology evolves, and people cling onto their beliefs that they are the ultimate driving machine, which enables them to text, drink coffee, watch a show, and shave for work while behind the wheel of a car. There will be bumps in the road, some caused by software, some caused by humans.
Death comes for everyone, much like E36 M3ting, it's one of the few equalisers of the planet. Nobody gets out of life alive, and when your time comes, it's your time, no matter your age, race, religion, intelligence, whatever. Everybody poops, everybody dies.
Or, just make licences harder to get and mandate recertification at renewal time, but that would just make sense, so we know that's impossible.