I'm big on fellowship and community.
I grew up Episcopalian. Went. Didn't really dig into it. Church was always a social event with food to me. Later it was a social event with girls.
I've been to a lot of different styles of churches. Presbyterian, Catholic, Luthern, Evangelical, UCC, UU, Synagogue, and even attended prayer at Mosque. Always really respected the Quaker Meeting House and Unitarian churches. I wish more churches were just gathering places to discuss topics, and less about a leader telling us how to feel about others.
I go to a church. I volunteer regularly. But only if I find a community who doesn't judge, and isn't slyly telling me I should judge.
A lot of churches out there "beat around the bush" on how they feel about various topics as to draw in people, but when you dig into how leadership really feels, they are judging.
My pastor tries really hard to give sermons or lessons based around tearing down religion, separating church and state, and just simply loving one another. Our church is LGBT friendly, and employs people who are openly gay.
One of the things that attracted me early on to the church was that he would always say "if your the praying type" - fully acknowledging that not everyone is.
He refers to God as "She" or "It" quite frequently.
He'll go into religious history about various days, or remind us "this week starts Ramadan" or "this week starts Diwali" and give us background on how those celebrations relate to Judeo-Christian history, or how various tribes across the world celebrate lunar events and how curious it is that those events also seem to match Christian holy days.
Unfortunately, our church is shrinking, like many, and it seems like the only churches growing are those that spread hate or intolerance.