Well wishes to you, z31.
Toyman01 wrote: ...and while we still loved each other, we didn't like each other very much.
My ex-g/f and I had the opposite problem. We like each other, but don't love each other. After 11 years together, we mutually decided it jsut wasn't going to work. We still e-mail/text/FB chat now and then, so much to our mutual friends' dismay we are rather cordial to each other.
She is with a new guy (who has a kid! which shocked most of us since she hates kids), but I and still recovering from relationship burn-out and I'm content in being alone.